Most attractive quality in a person?

[Nebulous]

What's the most attractive quality someone can have, in your opinion?

(could be a physical quality or a personality trait)

[Uncrowned Guard]

The ability to sit down and simply have a conversation with someone without any issues or needing to watch what each other say.

[ZandraJoi]

To be yourself with each other, flaws & all. To accept each other even if you don't believe in what they do or say, you believe in them as a human being.

[Nebulous]

A sense of humor. 

[Kyng]

Yeah, I think the ability to be yourselves around one another is the most important thing. Being around them shouldn't feel like work: it should be a method of re-charging your batteries, not something that drains them further.

[Uncrowned Guard]

On 8/30/2022 at 11:44 AM, Kyng said:

Yeah, I think the ability to be yourselves around one another is the most important thing. Being around them shouldn't feel like work: it should be a method of re-charging your batteries, not something that drains them further.

This is a really good way to put it.  👍

[ZandraJoi]

On 8/30/2022 at 11:44 AM, Kyng said:

Yeah, I think the ability to be yourselves around one another is the most important thing. Being around them shouldn't feel like work: it should be a method of re-charging your batteries, not something that drains them further.

That is very well thought out! Some people are energy vampires & literally suck the life out of you. Those people are toxic & one should just cut ties. I love being with my husband. He's my best friend! I think that is one of the ways we make our marriage work. We don't just LOVE but we LIKE each other.

[Uncrowned Guard]

On 9/3/2022 at 9:44 AM, ZandraJoi said:

That is very well thought out! Some people are energy vampires & literally suck the life out of you. Those people are toxic & one should just cut ties. I love being with my husband. He's my best friend! I think that is one of the ways we make our marriage work. We don't just LOVE but we LIKE each other.

Ya, this is a solid quality for successful relationship, even a successful friendship.  Both sides need to be making a positive impact on each other.

[Paige]

Traits that flow together and hobbies/interests that make activities enjoyable for both parties!

[Cory]

I agree that being able to be yourself without feeling the need to cover up your true identity is an attractive personality trait. Physical attractiveness is usually what we first notice when we view a person as a potential partner, but there are a lot of important factors that play a role in whether a partnership would work or not between a couple.

[Shortie]

When it comes to quality in a person, I would have to say the most attractive ones would be someone who cares, someone who sits and listens to you when you need someone to talk to, someone who genuinely cares and is not there to go behind your back. 

 

 

[brinxy29]

Confidence and critical thinking. Nothing is less attractive then a person who is always putting themselves down and lacking any sense of confidence anywhere in their life. Critical thinking is a must. Not only is it attractive it shows me that if things got bad in the real world, I would have someone by my side capable to planning and surviving. 

[Jason]

I find a person who respects privacy, isn't preachy, and doesn't boss others (unreasonably) to be very attractive.  The flip side is someone I actually hate, to be honest.

[Heatman]

Someone who knows how to apologise when they are in the wrong. 

This is a rare quality in human beings today because most people always want to be right when they are wrong. Even if it's clear they did wrong, they'll start making excuses for doing what they did.